Marriage

Starting from January 2019 marriages in Denmark for foreigners have to go through two different Danish authorities

Case working / Administrative approval and payment of fee is made online through a governmental authority: Agency of Family Law (Familieretshuset)
Only this Agency of Family Law is available for any questions regarding documents etc. We are unfortunately unable to guide or help you.
Website: Agency of Family Law 
Tel: +45 72 56 70 00
E-Mail proeve@familieretshuset.dk

State administration: Agency of Family Law

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a) International marriages
b) You or your partner is NOT a Danish or Nordic citizen
c) We wish to get married in Denmark
d) Application with an SMS-login service

Proceed with an application with the SMS-login service

Please write your telephone number (remember +country code, e.g. +44 for Great Britain), send, and then you will receive a code.
With this code you can then send your application (documents/payment)

Please note: Your licence to marry will be valid max 4 months after approval by the governmental authority.

Municipal marriage ceremony: in a municipality (kommune), and hopefully you choose Tønder Kommune (no additional cost).

When your documents have been approved by the governmental authority: Familieretshuset (Agency of Family Law) it is possible for you to send your request for your wedding ceremony appointment in Tønder.

When the Agency of Family Law sends an e-mail to you with your licence to marry, including a file number (sagsnummer), they will at the same time send an e-mail to us.

After having received your request, we will contact you, as soon as possible, via e-mail with a confirmation in case the requested day is not possible you will get the first free date.

Worktime 3-4 weeks. 

The first available appointments is in March 2025.

Information available here 

Every week we offer appointments on

Tuesday: 10 - 14
Thursday: 10 - 16

The early appointments are reserved to couples without own witnesses

The late appointments are reserved to couples with own witnesses

Please note Danish bank holidays and closure dates.

Make an appoint requist

Your wedding ceremony will take place in a beautiful, historic building. 

Address: Registry Office, Jomfrustien 8, 1st floor, DK-6270 Tønder, opposite the town hall.

No lift in the building – disabled couples will marry in another building. Please contact us.

Two witnesses must be present at the wedding. You can bring relatives and friends as witnesses. Your witnesses must be able to understand some German or English.

Please provide their full names and addresses on the reservation form - or at least one week before the wedding.

If you do not bring your own witnesses, we will be happy to provide two witnesses (free of charge).

Please check with your local authorities, whether a marriage performed by us will be recognised in your home country.

German-Danish agreement (only available in German)

After returning home please remember - both of you - to register your marriage at your local authorities as well as in your home country, if different.

According to Danish legislation a change of name is not possible in connection with  marriage in Denmark, if the person in question is not registered in Denmark. After the marriage, if desired, you must apply for a change of name in your country of residence.　

The marriage certificate always states both names as specified in the passports of th day of your marriage.

Even when your marriage certificate is reissued, the names remain the same as on the day of the wedding (even if a change of name has been made subsequently).

Tønder is situated only about 5 km from the German/Danish border.

Distances:
Flensburg (D): 50 km
Hamburg (D): 200 km
Berlin (D): 475 km

Best flight connection:
Hamburg (D)

Train connection:
Hamburg (D) – Niebüll (D) – Toender St. (DK)

Information about the Tønder Area

Feel free to research other options and information on the Internet 

You can request that we reissue your marriage certificate at any time.

Case working time ca. four weeks

Please fill out this form and submit